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It’s almost time for the new school year to start and it’s time to unlock the classrooms and start preparing lesson plans. Whether it is...

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It’s almost time for the new school year to start and it’s time to unlock the classrooms and start preparing lesson plans. Whether it is...

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Selecting the best private schools in Brisbane

There is a group of parents who wish that their children should attend a private school, but they do not know how to select a private school to take their child. This is because they are afraid that private schools, especially in Brisbane, are meant for rich people. For this reason, parents think that they cannot afford to take their children in any private school in Brisbane, and hence they opt to take their children in public schools. However, private schools in Brisbane are not that expensive, and for this reason, you should not be afraid of taking your children in these private schools fearing that they are for the children from the rich families.

 

However, there are several private schools in Brisbane that are too expensive, but there are also others that are affordable depending on the facilities that are available on the school. When you begin selecting private schools in Brisbane for your child, you need to make the selection of the best school since it is the joy of every parent to choose the best school for their children. For this reason, you need to be extra careful and think about some tips that will help you in choosing the best school. However, if you ask yourself the following questions, you will not fail to select the best private schools in Brisbane:

 

What is the school’s philosophy?

Every school has its philosophy that guides the teachers when they are teaching and also the learners as they learn. For this reason, you need to find out the kind of philosophy that the school has. The values, mission, goals, objectives, and vision of the private schools in Queensland, will guide you in learning about the philosophies of the different private schools before you come up with the best. This is because they all reflect the philosophy of the school.

What types of students are in school?

The types of students in private schools in Brisbane are different when it comes to their backgrounds. This includes social backgrounds, emotional backgrounds, and academic background.  However, these backgrounds affect the relationships between students if not chosen well. Choose a school where every type of student is accommodated and treated equally and not concerning their backgrounds.

Does the school use the right curriculum?

Every parent in Brisbane will want their children to be in a school that uses the right curriculum. For this reason, you will need to find out this for yourself before you select the school to take your child for learning. This will help you to avoid taking your child in a school that uses the wrong curriculum and curricular approaches in learning. Ipswich Grammar is a private school in Brisbane who can openly answer questions about their curriculum. Just pay them a visit to find out more about their programs.

Does the school offer extracurricular activities?

Apart from learning, the school needs to ensure that every child participates in activities such as sports, clubs, drama and music. You must ensure you find out whether the private school you are about to enrol your child offers these activities.

Does the school have enough resources?

The main aim of finding out whether there are enough resources is to ensure that learning takes place as expected. This is why you need to find out whether the school has resources such as teacher, libraries, classes, stationeries, laboratories, and uniforms. These resources should be adequate for all the students in the schools. Avoid taking your child in a school that has less learning resources.

 

It’s almost time for the new school year to start and it’s time to unlock the classrooms and start preparing lesson plans. Whether it is your first year of teaching or your tenth year, it is incredibly important for a preschool instructor to be prepared for the new year! Here are some tips that will help you start off right from the very first day.

1. Greet your new students at the classroom door

These are young children who are not very used to change – therefore, it is your role to make sure they are comfortable from the get go. You should start off with greeting them at the door. Greeting them with a smile, introducing yourself, and learning their names goes a long way in making these youngsters comfortable and ready for their first day.

2. Start the day off with introductions

So you’ve made the students comfortable with you – now it’s time to make them comfortable amongst themselves! Chances are that some of them might have been in a family day care bendigo earlier, for the rest it might be their first public interaction. The best way to do that is to start off with some introductions. Have each student talk about themselves, such as their name and some personal information such as their favourite colour and their favourite TV show. Let them talk in a way that they are comfortable with – sitting down, standing up, or standing in front of the entire class – but make sure each student talks about themselves.

3. Get them started on work right away

These are young children who probably don’t have any routine beyond a bedtime. Therefore, it is very important to start them on a routine as soon as possible. Make the timetable visible in the room, either on the board or on a chart paper, and keep referring to it throughout the day. Getting them to work right away means that you will be setting a tone for the entire year and make it clear that work is a priority in your classroom.

Also, make sure that you have enough tasks to fill the entire day and then some. Some classes move faster than others and you don’t want to have a few hours left in the day and have no more tasks left for them.

4. Build teams amongst the students

It’s very likely that you will have a large classroom with more than 25 kids. It isn’t possible to give each and every one of them individual attention on the first day and if it is an unruly crowd, they have the ability to overpower you and undermine your rules. So it’s time to go for the divide and conquer rule. For each task, split your students into teams. This allows them to get to know each other, build relationships, and it’s easier to give time to a team rather than each individual child. Keep changing the teams so students have the opportunity to interact with as many fellow students as possible.

 

It’s almost time for the new school year to start and it’s time to unlock the classrooms and start preparing lesson plans. Whether it is your first year of teaching or your tenth year, it is incredibly important for a preschool instructor to be prepared for the new year! Here are some tips that will help you start off right from the very first day.

1. Greet your new students at the classroom door

These are young children who are not very used to change – therefore, it is your role to make sure they are comfortable from the get go. You should start off with greeting them at the door. Greeting them with a smile, introducing yourself, and learning their names goes a long way in making these youngsters comfortable and ready for their first day.

2. Start the day off with introductions

So you’ve made the students comfortable with you – now it’s time to make them comfortable amongst themselves! The best way to do that is to start off with some introductions. Have each student talk about themselves, such as their name and some personal information such as their favourite colour and their favourite TV show. Let them talk in a way that they are comfortable with – sitting down, standing up, or standing in front of the entire class – but make sure each student talks about themselves.

3. Get them started on work right away

These are young children who probably don’t have any routine beyond a bedtime. Therefore, it is very important to start them on a routine as soon as possible. Make the timetable visible in the room, either on the board or on a chart paper, and keep referring to it throughout the day. Getting them to work right away means that you will be setting a tone for the entire year and make it clear that work is a priority in your classroom.

Also, make sure that you have enough tasks to fill the entire day and then some. Some classes move faster than others and you don’t want to have a few hours left in the day and have no more tasks left for them.

4. Build teams amongst the students

It’s very likely that you will have a large classroom with more than 25 kids. It isn’t possible to give each and every one of them individual attention on the first day and if it is an unruly crowd, they have the ability to overpower you and undermine your rules. So it’s time to go for the divide and conquer rule. For each task, split your students into teams. This allows them to get to know each other, build relationships, and it’s easier to give time to a team rather than each individual child. Keep changing the teams so students have the opportunity to interact with as many fellow students as possible.

 

How to educate children without resorting to punishment

Numerous studies have shown it: punishment is ineffective. Not only do they cause emotional scars, but they have also proved useless for educational purposes.

A child who is spanked or shouted angry, probably will stop behaving badly, but only out of fear and not because he has internalized what is right to do.

The pedagogist Daniele Novara explains in his latest book “Punishing is no use” that

children should not be terrified, but educated to grow well . And to do this it takes a good educational organization.

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To build it, parents must take three steps back (points 1,2,3) and three steps forward (points 4,5,6):

 1. Do not scream or punish

“The parent must realize that being angry and reacting on instinct are elements of weakness and weakness, they do not induce a sense of authority in their children, but only a sense of disorientation, and then affect the psychological level”.

 2. Keep the educational distance: the children will feel closer to you

Too confidently risks breaking down the distinction of role and putting the parent in a position of little usefulness for growth.

Today parents spend much more time with their children than in the past and despite this they feel guilty, especially the working mothers. But being with them all weekend is more than enough.

Parents must be parents, not playmates, nor lovers.

“In fact, excessive confidence can also lead to exaggerated fussiness: from kisses on the mouth, to calling the child” love “, to make him sleep in the Latvian … All actions that lead to exchange the child for the partner. a case that divorces occur in greater numbers among couples with children “warns Novara, who adds: ” for a healthy family balance the parental couple must have its spaces, in which the children must never enter “.

 3. Do not talk to him too much

Children must have clear and simple rules, so it is useless to make speeches, give an over-explanation. For example, it is right to say: “Before going to bed you have to brush your teeth, like mum and dad”, while it is useless to explain the importance of oral hygiene to prevent tooth decay. A speech of this kind would not be understandable.

“The child needs educational clarity, he trusts his parents, he does not need to be explained to him all the time why he has to do this.” The paradox of our days is that parents tend to talk to young children as if they were grown-ups. and at the same time they treat teenagers as if they were young children “.

4. Team play
Mothers and fathers must share decisions about child rearing. Parents must establish together what the rules are.

“Often mothers do not trust fathers and tend to cut them off, but this is extremely detrimental to the growth of children”.

The lack of agreement between two parents risks producing emotional tensions.

“The whims, in most cases are childish behavior that the child performs to induce the father and mother to agree”. 

To improve the parental couple’s teamwork, we need to “reduce the words that are used with the children and increase the ones that address the other parent”.

To conclude: first parents must agree on important choices, and then communicate them to the child.

But beware: only one of them must speak. If things are repeated by both, it seems that parents do not trust each other. If, on the other hand, communication makes it only one, it is clear that parents have already spoken about it before.

This also applies to separate couples who must find common agreements on the main issues.

 5. Give good rules

First of all we need to define what a rule is: the rule is an organizational procedure , for example: time to go to bed, wash hands before meals, how much TV to watch …

It must therefore be understandable and precise, not to excessive explanations; must be appropriate to age; it does not have to be a command (like: eat, sleep! …); not a prohibition (prohibitions, eg: “that is not touched!” are important, but are good for young children, up to two, three years); it does not have to be an exhortation to convince someone: “I beg you”, “come on”.

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The rules must be clear and simple. For example: “After dinner you read a story and then go to bed”; “from tonight you learn to make the folder alone”; “you can play with the tablet half an hour a day after you finish your homework”.

Rules can only be negotiated with teenagers. Negotiation does not exist with children. 

 6. Stay in your place, children will always be there

The border parents and children today has become very loose and this situation Novara summarizes with the expression: “the children on top” : all in the bathroom together, all in the Latvian, all to play ….

But if you break down the border, then it is not easy to recreate it when needed to give educational rules . The friendly parents are no longer authoritative and so they feel compelled to resort to threats and punishments to be respected.

Novara also warns to avoid kissing their children on the mouth . “This is a boyfriend’s attitude: the lips represent a erogenous zone, so kissing the children on the mouth contains a very confusing element and signals a sort of excessive sentimental symbiosis”.

Keeping a proper distance from the children helps to implement good educational methods “avoiding getting caught up in emotional traps and activating punitive modalities”. 

Furthermore , educational distance is fundamental in the construction of autonomy. The carelessness prevents three years of walking alone without a stroller, five to go to the bathroom alone and clean, eight to prepare the folder for themselves.

The clear rules, agreed between parents, prevent parents from turning into children’s helpers instead of educators and resorting to punitive methods to recover their role. 

 7. Active silence

Here is a technique that can work both with young children particularly “tyrannical” or with preadolescents or adolescents.

What is it about? It is a question of suspending verbal communication with the children . It must be implemented only in particularly serious situations, it must provoke a surprise in the children who do not expect this reaction of the parents.

For example, in the face of excessive behavior of a child, the parent can say “Mum and Dad are amazed at what happened, this behavior is not good, and now they will be silent for a while”.

That said it is important not to react to the attitudes that can be followed by the child. The parent must not manifest anger. The time of silence can vary from age: a few minutes for small children, a full day or even two for teenagers.
 “The purpose of active silence is to lower emotional tension and prevent rage from spreading”. 

Parents School

Daniele Novara is one of the organizers of the “Parents School” that every year organizes meetings around the themes of parenting around Italy. And during these meetings, on October 21st and 24th, in Rome and Milan, he will talk about the book “Punishing is not for nothing”.

How to educate children to the rules according to the Montessori method

Educating children to the rules and giving them limits is essential for healthy and harmonious growth. But to do this it is not necessary to oppress the children with punishments and threats. Just find the right strategies with respect for the little ones.

This is what Montessori educator Catherine Dumonteil-Kremer explains  in her book “Stop: placing limits on one’s own children through listening and respect” (Terra Nuova Edizioni).
First of all, Dumonteil-Kremer explains that “the malfunctions of the human being are nothing but expressions of his suffering”.

So in this all Montessori sense of punishment does not make sense.

And they must be replaced by an understanding of certain behaviors. “Our son is not a puppet made to go straight to the people he loves most in the world: his parents, if we respect him, he will not blindly obey orders, but he will be happy to collaborate with us”. 

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Here are some tips from Dumonteil-Kremer to pass on rules to children without resorting to blackmail and threats.

Give it clear rules

1. The first few times you give a rule of behavior that concerns a good daily habit, do it together. For example, go to the bathroom to wash your hands together. Remember that you are your model of behavior.

2 . To perform a task give him a time using a timer (that of the phone will be fine): two minutes to brush your teeth, five minutes to tidy up the bedroom, four minutes to put on pajamas … so your request will become more fun, almost a game.

3. When you give a rule, use a few words, so you do not risk provoking guilt or making judgments. For example, better say: “Cecilia, the pajamas!”, Compared to: “you have not yet worn the pajamas! Every evening the usual story … Move!”

4. Always try to be energetic when you propose to do something: the tone of voice can communicate a stimulating or otherwise depressing message.

5. Give him the possibility to choose, he will be more motivated to obey. For example: “Do you prefer to tidy up the room now or after having brushed your teeth?”. To be able to propose the possibility to choose means to feel a feeling of freedom, even if rather limited.

6. Avoid passing the rules as if they were advice. All the sentences that begin with “You should” You have to “… induce a profound resistance in children.

7. In the face of his improper behavior, do not judge him or make him your moral, but freely express your feelings. For example: “I become furious when I see all your legos in disorder”.

8. Then clearly express the behavior you expect from him: “I expect that after playing with lego you put them back in the box”.

9. When your child makes an excessive request, you have every right to respond negatively. You do not have to feel guilty, waste is part of life.

10.  Accept his anger. The “no” can generate in your child a suffering that usually results in anger. All you have to do is stay with him and listen to him, even if the child is furious with you. It is not easy, but try to think that with his outburst he is implementing a process of healing from his suffering. And to make it heal well you have to stay with him.